You said the RIGHT ONE! What if that RIGHT ONE was just YOU?

The rising frenzy to find the RIGHT ONE and to ensure that THAT ONE is the RIGHT ONE and if not then “RUSH YOUR ASS OUT OF THERE”.

Can’t apologize for my mouth but this exactly what people I have been interacting with keepfeeding me back as information.

They all talk about the ONE, that ONE, the RIGHT ONE.

And mind you, I almost joined that dance not so long back until at this moment something just clicked and shifted.

We all have within this need to be loved, so do I and so do you. Some of us will oppress this need, some of us will suppress this need, some of us will suffocate this need while others will oppress, suppress and even suffocate others for their need to be loved. Then on the other side, some of us who will start walking our way consciously to finding the walls, blocks, pains, hurts and tears that prevent us from loving before even loving.

What I mean here can be summed up through a series of questions, so please pause and check before proceeding.

Part 1

What are you looking for? Who is that RIGHT ONE? Can you list out the attributes in as much details as possible?

Why are you looking for that RIGHT ONE?

What will that RIGHT ONE bring you when he/she comes?

Why is that RIGHT ONE important to you and for you?

Now proceed to below questions

Part 2

Are you looking for someone so perfect to complete your sense of brokenness?

Are you longing for someone small enough not to rise your insecuredness?

Are you looking for someone to come and lick your wounded heart?

Are you looking for someone to make you feel perfect, beautiful and beyond all?

Are you looking for someone who will make you feel like that one superman/superwoman?

Is your definition of the RIGHT ONE of someone who will play your tunes and dance your vibes simply because it will make you feel good about it?

By now, some of us may probably be very much pissed off me and mind you it was done intentionally to confront.

So hear me, feelme, see me and read me now.

Finding the RIGHT ONE is part of our path, each of us and we shall choose our own path. But along this journey we missed one vital point. Are we the RIGHT ONE? Are you the RIGHT ONE?

Can you become that RIGHT ONE for someone? Do you want to become the RIGHT ONE for someone?

It will summon all your energy to pave that path to becoming that RIGHT ONE.

Where do we start now? What do we do? Where do we go?

Not far, just start treading inside, Darling. Becoming that RIGHT ONE starts with YOU growing in awareness of YOUR SELF, of that which hurts, that which triggers those sensitive spots, those inner limits, of that which makes you feel insecure, less, bad, ugly, dirty and of that which makes you cry in your lonely nights.

Becoming that RIGHT ONE is that one journey you will pave through your CHAOS until you EMERGE into YOU.

But you might wonder why waste time to do all this. Well, trust me you will never go far in life unless until you start investing time, energy, passion and eventually love into yourself. And as you grow your movements, your swirling and your fluttering into your self, you will slowly for sure grow into the RIGHT ONE for YOU FIRST and then for someone else.

Can you commit? Do you want to commit to becoming the RIGHT ONE?

On which side do you choose to journey? The Suffocated? The Suffocaters? The Warriors?

If LOVE is what you seek, then becoming the RIGHT ONE is the ultimate selfless act of LOVE for YOUR SELF and for the ONE that you will meet along your journey.

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