Love killed Midhat



What is love? When this question comes to my mind I become confused. Some answers peep in my mind, but temporarily. Because when I tell myself that, “I have got the answer”, another thought or circumstance makes it vague. Today I am going to tell a story of love, which has changed my view towards love.
For me love means sacrifice, love means responsibility, love means integrity. However, unfortunately today’s some youths have changed the definition of love.
Midhat, a student of a private university of Chittagong, who was only 19 years old, lost her valuable life because of love. She had a relationship with a boy named Sourav. The age of their relationship was 8 years. The boy Sourav was a derailed person. His education qualification was really poor and because of that Midhat broke her relationship with him. Six months later, 21 October, 2010 Sourav called Midhat to meet with him. She denied meeting with him, but he threatened her. As a result, she had to go to meet with him. But she didn’t know that what her x-boyfriend was going to do with her. He told her to meet with him in one of his friend’s house. She came there and on the rooftop they met. The boy tried to convince her not to break up with him. When he failed to make her understand, he stabbed her six times with a knife. After that, the girl was taken to the hospital, but doctors couldn’t save her.
When I heard the news I was shocked. One question first came in my mind, “How could that human kind animal kill the person with whom he had 8 years relationship, with whom he spent many beautiful moments?” I know his heart was broken because of her, but that didn’t mean that he would kill her. He would have to understand, roaming and dating are not love. If you love someone you should take the responsibility of him/her. Sourav knew, Midhat left him because of his poor educational qualification. He wouldn’t be able to do anything with this qualification, then how he could take responsibility of Midhat. If he really loved her, he would try to change himself. He could ask her to give him some time to prove himself. Instead of developing his qualification or focusing on his career he killed her.
Why we think that, whom we love will be our life partner? There is something call fate. We can’t do anything against our fate. Whatever is written in our luck, will happen to us.
Love someone is not wrong. But sometimes people choose wrong person in their life out of emotion. We shouldn’t be emotional in order to take decision. Especially, when we want someone as our life partner and want to spend our whole life with him/her. Midhat couldn’t understand that, but when she understood, it was too late.
People like Saurov don’t deserve anyone’s pity, anyone’s love, because of them people are losing their respect towards love. Even I am truly affected by this incident. My thought towards love has totally changed.
After this incident will any girl be able to trust any boy? I am a girl, and I think I can’t be able to. However, I wish this type of unpleasant incidents wouldn’t happen again.

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