"Standing Up"

Patience Coleman Beyan
Posted July 9, 2011 from Liberia

I come from a Country where stories about different issues are told. Liberia over a period 14years of civil unrest has led to many damages:Our education and health systems, our waters are contaminated and we are insecure due to the high level of poverty and many more. "Standing Up" isn't just the physical standing up, it is the way we face and overcome life challenges. As long as we live there will be trade offs. In October 1998 while still in junior high school(9th grade) at age 12, my father who was every thing to me passed out. He left us with worries about how to live and continue schooling. My mother was jobless and had to sell in order to feed the family and the business was a small "hand to mouth" one, therefore we never had enough to pay school fees. As God could have it, a sister of my dad(aunt) took us in and started to pay school fees but there was a serious challenge."Lunch and Transportation"My sister and I will lap over and the cab driver will sometimes refuse and sometimes insult us. This was an everyday thing. These two factors are key in making the learning environment impossible. How can a hungry person learn?What about walking home or getting insults from cab drivers on a daily basis? This was so discouraging, I almost dropped out of school and then I stood up realizing that this situation was temporary and I am on the road to success through education. I begin to encourage my siblings. Today, I am 25years old with a B.Sc degree in Economics with distinction and also Executive Director of a young women group called "Progressive Young Women for Development"(PYWD). I can afford to take care of my basic needs, the needs of my family and even extend a hand to others. All of these hard times can be linked to war and poverty. Development can only take place when we sustain peace around the world. Today, I am calling all Liberians, Africans, and the world to stand tall against violence before and after elections as Liberia goes through a transition this year since the first post war elections in 2005. This transition will determine whether I have the opportunity to do masters or not and I can't let this affect me. To all young and old, you have specific needs and experience. "Violence cannot solve problems", it can only worsen. So stand up and stand tall for peace and success.

By: Patience Coleman Liberia

My Story: Standing Up

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  • The smile of me
    Jul 09, 2011
    Jul 09, 2011

    education is the first step to success go on .... bless you

  • Jan Askin
    Jul 16, 2011
    Jul 16, 2011

    Dear Patience,

    Many of us must "Stand Up" now and then. Some of us must "Stand Up" on more frequent occasions. Your situation required your "Standing Up" continuously to achieve the successes that you have achieved. Yours is an exceptionally strong back bone.

    Congratulations, and thank you for writing this story.

    Your sister,


  • Frances Faulkner
    Jul 18, 2011
    Jul 18, 2011

    Patience - I never get tired of "strong women" stories like this. You felt a period of weakness, of not knowing how you could go forward, and yet you did and now you are a great mentor for women around you. It's so simple and yet so difficult in the face of many obstacles. I applaud your fortitude and voice. Thanks for sharing. I will stand tall for peace and success.


  • Sally
    Jul 18, 2011
    Jul 18, 2011

    Thank you very much for sharing your story. It was great to hear that even with the obstacles you face you still had the determination to "Stand Up" and accomplish your goals. I wish you well with the masters!

    Thanks again for sharing!

    Sally Smith

  • Patience Coleman Beyan
    Jul 18, 2011
    Jul 18, 2011

    I really appreciate the flavor u all added to how I faced those challenges and how I intend to face the upcoming ones. I will continue to share and will be willing to learn from all of u.

    Thanks so much