"VOF Week 2: (Moment of pain, When I knew I am a girl)"

Each person has a leadership style that they feel comfortable with. What must realize is that there are different styles of leadership that are required for different situations. All people like to believe that they are democratic leaders because that is the style that fits in with dealing with their peer group. What they must understand is that they may have to switch to a different style of leadership to get the issue accomplished.

This is very painful when someone knows his reality and it brings him to pain. I had faced that moment. Yes when I know I am a girl I feel a pain which was unbearable. That moment, that pain I cannot forget ever in my life. I want to share you that story when I was shocked knowing that I am a girl which have some discriminations in society.

I am the elder child of my parents and gain the whole love from my parents as well my relatives. My parents gave me full attention and all happiness of life. Because I am the elder child of my parents so the responsibility to bring things from bazaar was mine for this purpose they give me a bicycle﴾my father is a disable person, he cannot sit properly and have not his left hand so I took this reasonability in age of 7 years﴿. At that time I was the only girl, who rides a cycle at my city.

So now I am coming to the main point because I have short words limit. At that time I was 12 years old. I was going to bazaar with my 9 years old brother. At that time my parents gave me the big bicycle. At the midway people started shouting” hay see there a girl is riding bicycle” a saw back and surprised by this sentence. My brother ride off from cycle and said to me stop riding now. I don’t want you to ride the bicycle. At that time I quarrel with my brother because that all situations were instead of my expectations. When I came back to home my parents convince me. So after that I could not ride the cycle any more till now. That painful moment I cannot forgot ever in my life.

When I saw the platform of voices of future I become hopeful, after all I found a place where I can speak for myself in this world where nobody spoke for others. Yes I am here for myself and for my other companion. The one other solid reason to become this worthwhile platform that is my sensitive nature, I am used to think about hours and hours on our social issues those are mainly interlinked with our general masses. I really enjoy learning these aspects; they represent a new world to me.