la femme villageoise est victime de violence même dans sons foyer elle est délaisser avec ses peines. comme la femme villageoise par exemple ,chaque matin elle se réveille est part au champs la elle fait 7heures entrer de cultiver toute seule du retour au champs elle doit faire des travaille ménager elle doit chercher quoi manger avec sa famille . quand a son mari,lui reste a la maison sans rien faire entrer de jouet a la maison pour gaspiller le temps.après la récolte la femme va vendre ses produits lorsque elle aura son argent cet a ce moment que le mari va intervenir est prendre tout cet argent le mettre dans sa poche est va faire tout ce qu'il veut ,boire ,manger est chercher d'autres femmes . sa femme restera la ne sachant quoi faire avec ses enfants ,ils auront que quelque un quart de l'argent reçu pour satisfaire a leurs besoins qui est insignifiant , moi quant je voie tout cella j'ai mal a la tête voir comment la femme peut endurer toutes ses souffrances sans rien dire est sans aucune aide vraiment ce très grave.vous voyer ce que ça fait;

English translation by PulseWire member bmbu

Violence of the Rights of Women

The village woman is a victim of violence, even in her home she is left with sorrows. The village woman, for example, each morning she wakes up she goes to the field she is there for seven hours to farm by herself. Returning from the field she must clean the house, she must look for food so that her family can eat.

As for her husband, he stays at home without doing anything playing in the house and wasting time. After the harvest the woman will go to sell the products so that she can earn money. It is at this point that the husband will intervene and take all the money and put it in his pocket. He is going to do what he wants, drink, eat and chase women.

His wife will stay home not knowing what to do with her children, there will be barely enough money received to pay for even their smallest needs. For me when I see all of this my head hurts to see how a woman can endure all this suffering without saying anything and without any real aid. It is severe. You see this is how it is.

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Chère Riziki,

Merci beaucoup pour ayant partagé vos expériences de la violence privée. Toujours les média mettent l'emphase sur la violence de l'armée sans abordant les problèmes essentiels qui existent dans la maison. Il était interessant à voire comment les femmes travaillent dûr dans quelques domaines, pas seulement dans la maison. Pensez-vous qu'il existe des solutions pour affecter ces questions graves?

J'attends votre prochain poste,

Beverley

Violence of the Rights of Women

The village woman is a victim of violence, even in her home she is left with sorrows. The village woman, for example, each morning she wakes up she goes to the field she is there for seven hours to farm by herself. Returning from the field she must clean the house, she must look for food so that her family can eat.

As for her husband, he stays at home without doing anything playing in the house and wasting time. After the harvest the woman will go to sell the products so that she can earn money. It is at this point that the husband will intervene and take all the money and put it in his pocket. He is going to do what he wants, drink, eat and chase women.

His wife will stay home not knowing what to do with her children, there will be barely enough money received to pay for even their smallest needs. For me when I see all of this my head hurts to see how a woman can endure all this suffering without saying anything and without any real aid. It is severe. You see this is how it is.

Dear Riziki,

THANK YOU for giving VOICE to the daily abuse and lack of human rights of women in their own home and families. There is such injustice and gender inequality within the role of a woman (wife) and man (husband), this must change.

How is it that men and society have strayed so far from their own humanity and forgetting they were raised by loving mothers. Violence, Inequality and Injustices are vicious cycles that needs to be interrupted and redirected, it is not easy but essential. Where to start? Education, Programs, Women band together and go on Strike will create havoc and attention -- local churches, leadership and families must be advocates and lead by example.

Women are AMAZING and if her tireless load of work were to be translated into monetary value, she would be equal to the Chief Executive Officer (CEO) of a company. Women are the economic force in the community, you provide and sustain LIFE for all! Stay strong and be vigilant for all the AMAZING WOMEN CEO'S of their household!

With gratitude,

Linda Riziki Ando

With Gratitude,

Linda M. Ando