By profession, I am a Clinical Psychologist - 15 years worth of clinical experience dealing with issues related to adults and child population. My area of interest and passion has always been 'women's issues'! I grew up in pakistan, but from the very beginning everyone could tell that i was 'different' from the rest of the women of my age. I also managed to figure out quiet early in life that i was 'not' one of those 'regular' types! There was a fire in my belly... i questioned a lot more and refused to give in to the usual stuff women were expected to! Fortunately, my parents, being awfully liberal and progressive, helped me 'be' who i wanted to be! I knew, i wanted to be a psychologist at 15 - thanks to Dr Albert Ellis (the founder of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy /Cognitive Behavior Therapy) I read one of his books (A guide to Rational Living) and it changed my life completely! I knew i wanted to go to NYC and i literally asked God to keep him (Dr Ellis) alive till the time i'm ready to go and get trained by him! Believe it or not, he did stay alive till i managed to get trained by him personally and he died just recently (He was 93!) I'm a mover and shaker! I love pulic speaking and making a 'dent' in people's irrational thinking patterns! Coming from a third world country, where women are NOT trained to think for themselves - i changed it for those who came into my circle in whatever shape or form! I was and still am a staunch promotor of divorce - my motto is: "Say NO to sexual and physical Abuse - Life' s too short"! I'm proud to say that 7 of my very close friends got divoced and 5 out of the seven remarried! They refuse to look at divorce as a negative thing.. they started to believe that they can still get a life and move on after getting divorced!
I'm very passionate about the things that i believe in.... and i believe you can do no great things - only small things with great love! Motivational Public Speaking and Psychology - teaching people how to refuse to make themselves miserable about anything - YES! ANYTHING! Helping women to break free from the vicious cycle of guilt, self doubt and self downing Women empowerment through Cognitive Emotive Work!
My Vision for the Future
Running Women Empowerment Groups in Pakistan and Singapore - create awarness among as many as possible and train them in a way so that they can become leaders!