Why waiting for someone

Surbhi Jain
Posted February 16, 2018
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Hey, hello everyone. I want to share an experience with you all. Valentine's week is just over and throughout the week, I just saw that those who are in relationships are doing special things for their partners to feel them good and those who do not have any so called boyfriend and girlfriend are saying "How lucky they are, they have someone who loves them so much".

(Is they are really unlucky.)(?Not sure of what you mean here). I just want to say no, they are not lucky. Why are we waiting for someone else to make us feel special? Guys, we all need one person in life who can make us happy - want to know who it is? It's only you. Why are we so unkind to ourselves, why are we searching for someone else who loves us. You are the only person who lives with you, you are the only person who can feel your pain.

Actually, what I'm sharing with you has a story behind it. On 14th Feb one of my friends asked me- "Has any one proposed to you"? I started thinking then, I proposed to myself and promised my self that I'll take care of my self, I'll never humiliate you, I'll never feel bad about you, I'll never stop you from doing good things just because of fear of failure, I love you.

I don't want to write too long so that you get tired. I want to end my words by saying that - No one in the world can make you happy unless you want, you are the one of the best gifts to your self. So love your self as you are.

I'm writing for the first time so please comment on what you feel about my post (or story) and please let me learn my mistakes too so I'll get the chance to understand them.

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Tamarack Verrall
Feb 16, 2018
Feb 16, 2018

Dear Surbhi,

Welcome to WorldPulse and congratulations on your first post! What a beautiful Valentine's message. Your words are so important both as a reminder that no matter how much another person loves us, it is most important that we truly love ourselves. Your message is important too, in that there is so much pressure to have a partner in life and though this can be very special and wonderful, living free as a single woman can also be special and wonderful. In so many places women are still so pressured, even forced to marry. Your story celebrates freedom. 

In sisterhood,

Tam

PS. Watch for a private message. I am always glad to help with English, I teach it. You write beautifully.

Surbhi Jain
Feb 16, 2018
Feb 16, 2018

Thanks.

Olutosin
Feb 16, 2018
Feb 16, 2018

Yes you are very correct. Why wait for another person to make you happy when you can make yourself happy. Why searching for a lover on Feb 14th when you can love yourself all year round...365 days in a ywar.

I love love love your voice.

You are welcome here!!!!

Surbhi Jain
Feb 16, 2018
Feb 16, 2018

Thank u so much for your appreciation.

Wendy Stebbins
Feb 17, 2018
Feb 17, 2018

Hi Surbhi,

You are just wonderful. You have such a wonderful soul spirit. I just love you. Your personality is so infectious, you make my face smile even when I am not thinking about smiling. You are right. You are enough. Only you have to love yourself. But, Surbhi, the way you are, you cannot keep people from loving you and your soul spirit. I just want to wrap my arms around you and give you a big hug. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are so cute. 

Namaste,

Wendy

Surbhi Jain
Feb 18, 2018
Feb 18, 2018

Hey , thank u wendy for your love and I don't know you but I can feel that you are really a wonderful person with kind heart who wants to appreciate others for their work.

Namaste

Wendy Stebbins
Feb 18, 2018
Feb 18, 2018

Yes, you are right about me. As we say in America "It takes one to know one". Keep on keeping on and please stay in touch with me. I would love to hear more from you.

Surbhi Jain
Feb 18, 2018
Feb 18, 2018

Yeah ,sure I'll .

SIMON MUREU
Feb 11
Feb 11

Thank you and have it good