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I am recently separated from my abusive spouse. I have finally followed through with a tpo against him but he still came to my house last night and tried to convince me that he loves me and that he knows I still love him. He doesn't accept the fact that he has killed all that. But every other time I've started missing him after a few days and end up taking him back. Now it's not just me he's hurting but my daughter and her two very impressional children. I have to keep him away or I'm gonna lose them. We are all in therapy after living with him the past 10 months. I have no ties to him anymore. We don't have children together and I actually divorced him about four years ago so there's no legal obligation there either, so why do I keep letting him back in? It's only been a few days this time so right now is the critical time when I start to miss him. This time since he's violated the tpo and even ran out my back door last night when the police showed up, I have no choice but it's not that easy. He is running from the police and he does have warrants on him but I'm still scared because I don't know where he is.