I am working with the community who faced social issues and natural disasters like 30 years conflict and tsunami and other natural disasters. Every one directly or indirectly been experienced 30 years conflict impacts. Its fast moving towards from relief, rehabilitation to development. However, social, physiological and social remnants of conflicts still remain in the society. To build up social harmony and peace, need continues effort, by Emotional intelligence and life skills can achieve. There are enough evidence around the world on it.