declaration contre toute sorte de discrimination et marginalisation



suis une femme veuve agee de 40 ans nee dans la province du sud-kivu,territoire de SHABUNDA; jalouse de mes samblables(femme) qui subissent toute sorte de marginalisation.
Dans notre territoire,une veuve n'a pas droit de parler devant les gens,de rehausser la tete, mager quant elle veut de ou dormir dans son lit car,le jour meme que le mari a perdu la vie, la chambre doit etre fermee et la cle gardee par la fammille du mari et cela 3mois apres la mort de son mari,Pour l'heritage elle n'a pas droit de reclamer, 6mois apres la mort de son mari,elle doit rentrer chez elle se reposer .Cas echeant ;Madame Vermigna WABUJOLELA
Apres la deception ,elle ne s'est pas laissee faire, comme elle travaillait avec son mari depuis leurs mariage qui etait un vrais initiateur des de trois GRANDES ONGs dont les deux ont ete arachees avant la mort du mari et la troisiemes etait derangee par la famille du mari apres sa mort ,elle s'est lancee dans les activites humanitaires(communautaires) ou avec l'aide du seigneur,elle a decouvert qu'elle peut redemarrer ces activites restant comme coordinitrice de cette derniere.
Malgres la multiplication de difficultes,elle reste toujours tres brave Premierement pour defendre les femmes veuves de la province du sud -kivu en general et en particulier celles du territoire de SHABUNDA



English translation by PulseWire member merehutch



I am a 40 year old widow, born in the South Kivu Province, Shabunda Territory; I am concerned with my fellow women undergoing any kind of marginalization.



In our country, a widow has no right to speak to people, to raise her head, to eat when she wants to or to sleep in her husband’s bed, because the same day her husband died, the room must be closed and the key guarded by his family. For 3 months after the death of her husband she has no claim to any inheritance. 6 months after the death of her husband, she may return to her home to rest. If possible, Madame Vermigna WABUJOLELA does not want to abandon the work of her and her husband – as their marriage was the start of three big NGOs. Two of these organizations were uprooted after her husband’s death, and the third was disturbed by her husband’s family following his passing. She discovered that she can restart these activities and remain as the coordinator of the third NGO. Despite many difficulties, Madame Vermingna is very brave – defending women and especially widows in the South Kivu Province and especially the territory of Shabunda.

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