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DRC: Security Begins With Women

Seka
Posted February 5, 2019 from Democratic Republic of the Congo

Seka challenges traditional gender roles when it comes to the important task of building peace in the Democratic Republic of Congo.

“Nothing lasting or permanent can ever be built without women.

A woman, in general, is a person of value in African society. It is thanks to her that society has been built. It is our duty to make women understand that even though we suffer from being subjected to prejudice, we must, like men, be concerned with the security issues all around us.

Men also need to work together with women in order to maintain security and keep the peace. Women should be included in any security process. We cannot ignore that women are real agents of change in society.

As women, our participation is indispensable to the establishment of any true and lasting peace. By nature, we have a heart that is compassionate to the sorrows of others. We hope for things to go well for others. Women often see things in finer detail while men see things from a general perspective.

However inferior the status of the woman may appear, she represents the nation. Nothing lasting or permanent can ever be built without women.

It is obvious that the starting place for action is in the family. Women are the departure point in society, the point at which all things begin.

In our tradition, it has always been said: "Everyone owes a debt to their father and twice the debt to their mother." There is a Peuhl poet who says, “With a woman nothing works, but without a woman—all is lost.”

Women are not unfit to do this or that in society. It is only custom that holds women back. I invite women to become aware of the chasm into which our customs have thrown us. We must rise up to play our own roles.

As they say, “What a woman wants, God also wants.” I say to each of you now: Women, educate yourselves. Have the wherewithal to make security decisions for yourselves. Take your place alongside men to bring peace into the world.

* Translated from French by Nana Nash


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Jill Langhus
Feb 05
Feb 05

Hi Seka,

Great job receiving the story award, dear. I'm glad your strong voice is being heard!

Seka
Feb 07
Feb 07

Thank you very much, Jill, I'm grateful to you for your encouragement. Yes, my voice is heard, It is amazing!
Be blessed!
Seka

Jill Langhus
Feb 07
Feb 07

You're very welcome, dear:-)

I'm grateful to you for the work that you are doing! Well done!

You, too:-)

Dawn Arteaga
Feb 05
Feb 05

Beautiful piece - thank you for sharing. I love your line "women are the point at which all things begin." There is so much power in recognizing our role in the world - and our role in building a more peaceful world.

Seka
Feb 07
Feb 07

Dear Dawn,
I am delighted to have spoken to a heart. Thank you very much for your attention. God bless you.
Seka

Lisbeth
Feb 06
Feb 06

Dear Aunty Seka,
Congratulation on being a featured story teller :-)!

Seka
Feb 07
Feb 07

Thank you my sister Salifu. We are together.
Seka

Tarke Edith
Feb 07
Feb 07

Hi Seka
I am greatful with your award sister for you stood up for the women thanks and congrats dear

Seka
Feb 08
Feb 08

Thank you my sister Edith,
It is a joy for each one of us because we are one family. You're welcome.
seka

otahelp
Feb 07
Feb 07

Dear Seka, time for us to break out from the bondage of custom but most women do not buy into our idea. i know that continuous education and enlightenment will surely make us see the reason to arise and drive our future and that of our children.

thank you for sharing and congratulations for making the award.

Seka
Feb 08
Feb 08

Thank you my dear for the compliments. We hope that with time our truth will eventually triumph. Be blessed!
Seka

otahelp
Feb 08
Feb 08

good to know we all think alike on this

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Thank you to read it!

Marie Abanga
Feb 07
Feb 07

Qu'elle histoire avec une message si forte et plein d'encouragement.

Thank you for sharing what the poet says although I don't get it when he starts by "with a woman nothing works..." lol

Anyways, your post makes me think of Meghan Markle's speech at the UNWomen when she said if men aren't inviting us to the table, we set our own table. That's my approach in life, giving myself permission to say it loud and clear.

Congratulations for getting the award

Seka
Feb 08
Feb 08

Hello Marie!
Well said! World Pulse is our table! We are all invited to participate.
God bless you!
Seka

ARREY- ECHI
Feb 08
Feb 08

Women are indeed the departure point in society where all things begin.
It is important for women voices to be heard. Beautiful piece.
Félicitations Soeur Seka. Beacoup du Courage.

Seka
Feb 11
Feb 11

Thank you very much to encourage me. I like so much WP because I am connected to the women's world. Together is one!
All the best!
Seka

Congratulations, Sis Seka! I join you in your call, "Women, educate yourselves". Knowledge is power.

Seka
Feb 11
Feb 11

Dear Karen,
I thank you so much to join me, I am encouraged to continue to fight for woman. I like your posts too.
Be blessed my dear.
Seka

Oh thank you for reading, too. sis Seka. World Pulse is my place breath. Keep posting, too!

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Thanks!

Congrats I admire your words, the award lifts you high, more grace to your elbow, with love.

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

What to say? May glory return to God my daughter!
Seka

laison sylvie
Feb 14
Feb 14

Am overwhelmed. Congrats mum

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Thank you my daughter!

Evelyn Fonkem
Feb 16
Feb 16

Great piece Seka.I greatly agree with you that women''s role in maintaining peace cannot be underestimated.

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Thank you Evelyn to encourage me. Be Blessed!

uduakedet
Feb 16
Feb 16

Amazing..keep up the good work

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Be blessed my dear,we are together.

Rahmana Karuna
Feb 16
Feb 16

yes we are

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Thanks! Together, we are going up!

Great job, congratulations

Seka
Feb 20
Feb 20

Thanks to you ! I love WP'members!

Seka
Mar 22
Mar 22

Wow! Ravie de voir mon drapeau, je me suis dit "quelqu'un de chez-nous"! Comme j'aimerais vous voir de près! Puis-je savoir votre adresse?
Merci et au plaisir
Seka

Berlotte I Antoine
Feb 26
Feb 26

The statement is really true "Nothing lasting or permanent can ever be built without women". Nice piece!

Seka
Mar 22
Mar 22

You are welcome dear Berlotte
Thanks
Seka

Kirthi
Mar 12
Mar 12

You are such a braveheart, Seka! More power to you, my sister!

Seka
Mar 22
Mar 22

Happy to hear you again. With WP all thing must change even my heart.
sisterhood
Seka

Juliet Acom
Mar 12
Mar 12

Congratulations Seka,

Keep sharing your story, women must be heard! We must take our place to bring peace to the world for sure!
cheers

Seka
Mar 22
Mar 22

Yes Juliet, it is our goal to bring peace in our world.
Thanks!
Seka

Tamarack Verrall
Mar 21
Mar 21

Dear Seka,
What a powerful call to action, and a reminder that "We cannot ignore that women are real agents of change in society". Together we are challenging custom as it is repeated today. It is hopeful that old sayings are still repeated that respect the value of women. It is the perspective and generosity of heart that we have to offer, that is missing and so needed in all of our countries. I hope your strong message travels far and wide.

Seka
Mar 22
Mar 22

Dear Tam,
We are comforted that our voices are beginning to be heard. We hope things will not stay the same as long as we continue to scream. However, we need to know the right way to do it. Please stay by our side as you do (our elders in the WP).
In sisterhood
Seka